Bio Cryptoparty founder. Amnesty award winner. Mutant network node herder. Justice python. Crone. medium.com/@Asher_Wolf Location Melbourne, Australia Tweets 627,5K Followers 66,9K Following 48,1K Account created 18-07-2008 21:12:53 ID 15486485
iPhone : Good relationships are about mutual human thriving. It is intrinsically impossible to counsel towards a better relationship when abuse also exists and remains unaddressed, because the two are anathema to each other.
iPhone : I also suspect that, like most angry women in our culture, I would have come across as particularly unsympathetic, especially next to my ex who was genuinely engaging in the process, and delving deeply into his own emotional wounding.
iPhone : And all of this meant that our sessions were often not very productive, as I was incredibly angry at what had happened to me and my daughter, that I was being asked (but refused) to share responsibility in, and therefore didn’t engage well in the process.
iPhone : Important things my ex should have heard from our relationship counsellor in the aftermath of IPV, but didn’t: -What you did was unacceptable & wrong -You are not the “real victim” here -Your actions are your responsibility, not hers -If you do it again,there will be consequences twitter.com/brookmanknight…